Illustration of Dorothy Eady, known as Omm Sety, in profile before a wall relief of Pharaoh Seti I at Abydos, with bold title text

Is Abydos calling you? … In a London suburb in 1904, a little girl fell down a flight of stairs.  She was pronounced dead.  And then, she returned to life, claiming she belonged in Ancient Egypt.  Her name was Dorothy Eady.  She remembered a forbidden love with a Pharaoh that began 3,000 years earlier, here, in the dust and light of Abydos.

This is Part 3 of the seven-part series, The Seeker’s Path Begin the pilgrimage from the beginning here.

Some places you visit. Others, you feel.  Abydos is different.  It gets under your skin.  For me, that feeling is forever intertwined with a story—a tale of reincarnation and a love that defied time itself.  It’s Omm Sety’s story.  And its echo in these stones is so palpable, I’ve felt it in my bones.

But to truly feel Abydos, to let the Osireion work its magic, you must first know the story of a devotion that spanned time and space.  This is the key of devotion.

The 3,000-Year-Old Sacred Spell: A Pharaoh’s Forbidden Love

Egypt, circa 1,285 BC.  The air is scented with lotus and the dry heat of the garden.  Pharaoh Sety I, a man of fifty, is resting at his palace in the pilgrimage town of Abydos.  He is here to oversee his greatest work: a magnificent new temple for Osiris, god of the afterlife, believed to be buried in this sacred ground.

His solitude is broken by a young priestess of Isis, unaware of his presence.  Her name is Bentreshyt—”Harp of Joy.”  At fourteen, she had been given to the temple as a child after her mother’s death.  Despite the chasm of age and status, an immediate, undeniable attraction sparks between them.

In the following weeks, they meet in secret.  But word comes of trouble on the borders.  Sety must leave.  While he is gone, a devastating truth emerges: Bentreshyt is pregnant.  Brought before the High Priest, she admits to a lover but steadfastly refuses to name him.  As a consecrated initiate of Isis—the goddess of love herself—she is temple property, forbidden to any man, even her Pharaoh.

Bentreshyt’s Sacrifice: Love’s Triumph Over Betrayal

Faced with an impossible choice—betray her king or face the temple’s judgment—Bentreshyt chose a third path.  She took her own life.

When Pharaoh Sety I returned to Abydos and received the news, he was shattered by a grief that would transcend his mortal reign.  He made a vow, a sacred promise sealed in sorrow: he would never forget her.  A promise that would echo, against all odds, through 3,000 years of history.

The Priestess Reborn

England, 1904.  Dorothy Louise Eady is born.  At three years old, she tumbles down the stairs at her home in Blackheath.  A doctor pronounces her dead. An hour later, a nurse finds the little girl sitting up in bed, perfectly alive, but profoundly changed.

She becomes obsessed with Egypt.  A visit to the British Museum ends with her being dragged away, screaming that the mummies were “her people.”  Then, she finds a photograph of the Temple of Seti I at Abydos.  She runs to her mother – Caroline, pointing.  “This is my home!” she cries.  But she is confused.  Why is it in ruins?  Where is the beautiful garden?

As she grows, she skips school to haunt the museum’s Egyptian rooms.  She befriends the renowned Egyptologist E.A. Wallis Budge.  He is astounded at how quickly she learns hieroglyphs—until she explains she wasn’t learning, she was remembering.

Dorothy Eady Goes to Cairo

The  second world war comes and goes.  Dorothy cheats death during the London bombings at least twice.  Her dreams are filled with fragments of a life she cannot yet understand.

At twenty-nine, she marries an Egyptian man, Imam Abdel Meguid, and moves to Cairo.  She bears a son and, to her husband’s family’s dismay, insists on naming him Sety.  Thus, she becomes Omm Sety: Mother of Sety.  The marriage lasts but two years.  After parting, she leaves her son with his father.

Dorothy goes to work with the Department of Egyptian Antiquities.  She astonishes seasoned Egyptologists with her intuitive knowledge and skilled draftsmanship, often filling in missing pieces of inscriptions and layouts from memory.

Over time, the memories solidify.  She was Bentreshyt.  And the spirit of Pharaoh Sety I began to visit her.  He explained—as a high priest of the mysteries—how he could gather life force to fashion a temporary physical form.  It would cost her, shorten her life.  She insisted.  And so, he came to her not as a ghost, but as a man she could see, touch, and love.

Return to Abydos

In 1956, Dorothy Eady came home.  She moved to Abydos and would remain there until her death in 1981.

Both Dorothy and Sety I understood the price of their past transgression.  To atone for their forbidden union and ensure their spirits could find each other again in another life or dimension, they had to abstain from all physical contact.  To fail would mean eternal separation.

For the next 24 years, Omm Sety lived her devotion.  She worked at the temple, guiding visitors, making exquisite drawings, and helping archaeologists.  She told them where to find the lost garden, and every day, she performed the ancient rites of a Priestess of Isis within the very halls she once knew.

She is buried at Abydos, though not precisely as she wished.

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Her friend, Hanny el-Zeini, recorded her conversations—questions put to the Pharaoh’s spirit about history, royalty, and daily life.  These journals and tapes form the basis of his remarkable book, “Omm Sety’s Egypt”, for those called to delve deeper.  I went to visit Hanny once in Cairo.  We got on quite well until I asked the fatal question “Do you believe what Omm Sety said?”  That was the end of the conversation – he asked me to leave 🙁

It is crucial to note: No one who knew her work ever disputed Omm Sety’s story.  She was, and remains, deeply respected by Egyptologists for her contributions and her unwavering character.  Her story has captured the imagination of travels for years and inspired more than one towards further research into ancient texts and writings.

There is something at Abydos that keeps drawing me back, not just physically but also mentally.  After years of visiting I began to realise that the Pharaoh Sety I had left his own biography on the walls at Abydos and, by following my own instincts and a natural progression, on entering the temple, the story eventually became so obvious I was wondering why guides were not just reading it to tourists, as it was written.

There is so much more to write and discover about Abydos, but a story only has real value when the listener can hear something in it that resonates with his own inner being.  There are infinite stories in the cosmos – and, here is the best part – we can each choose our own.  Just as Sety I, who had been brought up and trained to be a devotee of the god Set (not a pleasant character), refused to serve – so can we choose at any moment in time to change the drama we are currently playing out.  I wonder if Abydos is calling you, as it calls to me …  Come to Abydos with Mara!

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The Seeker’s Path: TheSevenKeys – Abydos & Dendera

This article is part of a series.  Unlock the full story with all seven keys.

  1. Key of Invitation: The Seeker’s Path
  2. Key of Connection: How the Stones Found Me
  3. Key of Devotion: Omm Sety – Dorothy Eady & Pharaoh Sety I
  4. Key of Mystery: Return of the Djedi?
  5. Key of Revelation: The Maker’s Hand – Unseen Genius at Abydos
  6. Key of Ritual: Beyond the Cartouches – The Priests Who Kept the Heartbeat of Abydos
  7. Key of Cosmos: The Celestial Secrets of Dendera Temple